Can a daughter visit her parents’ graves during Qingming Festival? Will my daughter’s family become extinct when she visits her parents’ grave?
Qingming Festival is a good time to visit graves and pay homage to ancestors. However, not everyone knows whether daughters can visit graves during Qingming Festival. So, let’s take a look at whether daughters can visit their parents’ graves during Qingming Festival. "Flowers bloom in February", the second month of the lunar calendar is also called the Apricot Month. For auspicious and inauspicious analysis of matters related to marriage, moving, signing contracts, etc., please visit the special column of February 2021 of the lunar calendar on Shuimoxiansheng.com!Can a daughter visit her parents’ graves during Qingming Festival?Whether a daughter can visit her parents’ graves during Qingming Festival also needs to be judged based on local customs. In some areas, married daughters are not allowed to visit the graves, but unmarried ones can. However, in some areas, people can visit the graves regardless of whether they are married or not. In some areas, daughters, whether married or not, are not allowed to visit graves.1. Married daughters cannot visit the graves, but unmarried daughters can In some areas, it is said that married daughters cannot visit the graves of their deceased relatives, but unmarried daughters can. Because they think that after their daughter gets married, she is no longer a member of their family, but a person of an outsider family. She cannot sweep the ancestral graves of her parents' family, otherwise she will take away the feng shui of her parents' family. 2. Whether you are married or not, you can visit the grave In some areas, daughters can visit their parents' graves regardless of whether they are married or not. Especially nowadays, many families do not have the idea of male superiority and female inferiority. Regardless of whether the daughters are married or not, they are still their own children, so naturally they can visit the graves. 3. Whether you are married or not, you are not allowed to visit the graves. In some areas, daughters are not allowed to visit the graves of their deceased relatives regardless of whether they are married or not. In some villages in southwestern and central-southern Shandong, unmarried daughters cannot visit the graves of their deceased relatives to pay homage. This is even a clan rule that cannot be violated. If there is no son in the family, the nephews or nephews from the next room will do it instead. Therefore, whether a daughter can visit her parents’ graves during Qingming Festival also needs to be judged based on local customs and habits. Will my daughter’s family become extinct when she visits her parents’ grave?There is a proverb in the countryside that says "a daughter's family will be destroyed if she visits her parents' graves". It means that if a married daughter returns to her parents' home to visit their graves, it will have a bad influence on her family's fortune and reputation.Reason 1: When a daughter returns to her parents’ home to visit the graves, she will have the good feng shui of her parents’ ancestral graves; Reason 2: When a daughter returns to her parents’ home to visit the graves, outsiders will think that her parents’ family has “no one to carry on their family ties”. Therefore, generally speaking, a daughter’s visit to the graves has the greatest impact on her parents’ family. Traditional concepts hold that women cannot visit ancestral graves, whether at their husband's home or their own. Even if they visit their parents' home during the Qingming Festival, they are only there to sit and have a meal to show that they have been there. They are not allowed to follow their father, brothers, nephews, etc. to visit their ancestors' graves to pay homage. This is the reason why we often say "If a woman visits her parents' grave, her family will be extinct". The older generation believes that women inherently contain a lot of negative energy and are considered unclean. If they go to worship their ancestors, they will offend the ancestors, causing them to not have peace and their descendants to not be protected, which is also disrespectful to the ancestors. |
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