Is it okay to get married on the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month in 2020, the day after the beginning of spring? Is it not okay to get married in the year of widowhood in 2021?
Introduction: According to traditional customs, you usually need to choose an auspicious day for marriage. So is it okay to get married one day after the beginning of spring on the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month in 2020? Is it not possible to get married in 2021, the year of widowhood? "The seventh and eighth days of the twelfth lunar month, the crows are frozen to death." People drink a bowl of Laba porridge on the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month. Do you want to know more about this day of Laba? Just follow Mr. Shui Mo and he will take you to learn about the twelfth lunar month in 2020.Is it a good idea to get married one day after the beginning of spring on the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month in 2020?Lunar calendar: December 23, 2020 Gregorian calendar: February 4, 2021, Thursday, Aquarius ○ Suitable for today - Sun-day and Moon-break: repair graves, fast and offer sacrifices, receive money, take office, seek offspring, plant, remove, seek medical treatment, break house, build stove, take medicine, travel, recruit son-in-law, sign a contract ○ Unfavorable for today - Sun-day and Moon-break: open the market, travel, seek money, build, offer sacrifices, pray for blessings, bury, move coffins, break ground, start drilling, bury, receive betrothal gifts, marry, move into the house, install doors, separate, break ground, install beds, close tents, wear hairpins, put on beams, erect pillars, build houses, buy property, release water, take in livestock, migrate——According to the old almanac, since this day is a day of moon break, it is not suitable to get married one day after the beginning of spring on the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month in 2020. Can't get married in 2021, the year of the widow?The existence of the "widow year" is actually just a folk saying, also known as the slippery year. This is how it is called in the northern part of our country. In the southern part of the country, people are more accustomed to calling it the "blind year" or the "dumb year." When there is no Beginning of Spring in a lunar year, people call this year the "Widow Year". It is not appropriate to get married in this year, otherwise the woman will become a widow.Nowadays, with the changes of the times, the tradition of not getting married in a widow's year has gradually been broken. Seeking good fortune and avoiding misfortune is a traditional Chinese folk culture. When getting married in a widow's year, you just need to pay attention to some taboos. It is not necessarily that you cannot get married. As the saying goes, "Boys take their birth date, women take their wedding date", it can be seen that the wedding date is more important to women. Naturally, the taboo of getting married in a widow's year is mostly aimed at women. ——Summary: Since there is no Lichun in the lunar calendar year of 2021, it is called the "Widow Year". Traditionally, there is a saying that "it is not suitable to get married in a widow year", but this is actually a folk saying and is not certain. If there is such a saying in the local area, it is necessary to follow the local customs. However, if you are not getting married, it is necessary to choose an auspicious day. What are the taboos to pay attention to when getting married?1. The bride’s clothes should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth from her parents’ home.2. Three days after the wedding, the newlyweds must return to their husband’s home before sunset and cannot stay overnight. If there are special reasons that prevent them from going home, the couple should sleep separately to prevent the bride's bloodiness during her honeymoon from offending her family and bringing bad luck to them. 3. Pregnant women and people in mourning are not allowed to witness the newlyweds leaving the house or moving in, and they are not allowed to touch the newlyweds’ clothes or any items in the new house. 4. When the groom goes to the bride's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave her parents' home or cry for joy out of excessive excitement. This is very common and not a problem (it is even a good thing, as leaving "water head" behind will bring good luck to the bride's family). But after you marry into the man’s family, you are not allowed to cry. 5. The bride should avoid wearing "old shoes" on the wedding day. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be new. If you are worried that the new shoes will be hard and uncomfortable, you should choose higher quality soft leather, size them a little looser and add thick pads. Also, you should not wear heels that are too high. 6. You can wear some mascots or lucky charms. But don't buy randomly. 7. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, as this would be considered embarrassing for her husband. 8. When the bride enters the groom's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and should step over it. The Eight Characters are an important matchmaker in your life, revealing your marriage destiny and predicting your marital happiness! To calculate the direction of your personal marriage, you can click on the "Premium Calculation" below to predict your marriage in advance. I wish you a happy marriage! |
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