Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival in 2022? Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival?

Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival in 2022? Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival?
Speaking of the Dragon Boat Festival, I believe everyone is familiar with it. However, not everyone knows whether you can go back to your parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival. So, let’s take a look at whether you can go back to your parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival in 2022? Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival? Every day has its good and bad parts, and different things are suitable to be done on different days. Pay attention to Shuimo.com's special topic on May of the Lunar Calendar in 2022 to know the good and bad of each day.

Can I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival in 2022?

1. Check the almanac
Dragon Boat Festival 2022: Friday, June 3, 2022, Gemini (solar calendar); Lunar calendar 2022, May 5, 2022 (lunar calendar)
The lunar calendar for that day is as follows: [Do not use it for important events on Yang Gong's anniversary]. Because the Dragon Boat Festival in 2022 is Yang Gong's anniversary, it is not recommended to travel far on this day. Therefore, if your mother's home is far away, it is not recommended to go back. If it is very close, then there is no taboo.
2. Look at the customs
——You can return
In some parts of our country, people can go back to their parents' home on the Dragon Boat Festival, and the locals believe that the Dragon Boat Festival is the day for returning home. The "Wan Shu Miscellaneous Notes" written by Chen Bang of the Ming Dynasty records: "In May, the Daughters' Day, people have to wear a Dragon Boat Festival purse, mugwort and five poisonous talismans. The custom in Wan is to dress up the little daughter and show her beauty to the best of her ability from the first to the fifth day of May (the fifth day of May is the Dragon Boat Festival). Married daughters also return to their parents' home." Therefore, in some parts of our country, people can go back to their parents' home on the Dragon Boat Festival.
——You can’t go back to your parents’ home
In some areas of our country, it is also believed that one should not return to one's parents' home on the Dragon Boat Festival. There is also a local saying that goes, "If you eat the Dragon Boat Festival rice dumplings from your parents' home, your whole family will die." A married girl must go back to her husband's home before the Dragon Boat Festival, which means she cannot spend the Dragon Boat Festival at her parents' home, otherwise, she will bring bad luck.
You are not allowed to go back to your parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival. It is recommended that you judge based on local customs and also negotiate with your husband. The Dragon Boat Festival is also a family reunion festival, and you can celebrate it at your parents' home or at your husband's home.

Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival?

In some parts of our country, you are not allowed to go back to your parents' home on the Dragon Boat Festival.
[Shandong cannot go back to her parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival]
For example, in Shandong area, there is a saying that you cannot go back to your mother's home during the Dragon Boat Festival. They believe that women are not allowed to return to their parents' home during any major festivals, and are not allowed to see lights on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month and must "hide from lights." The Dragon Boat Festival is Yang Gong's death anniversary, so nothing should be done on this day. Therefore, it is not recommended to go back to your parents’ home on the Dragon Boat Festival.
[Chifeng cannot go back to her parents’ home during the Dragon Boat Festival]
For example, in Chifeng, there is such a custom that a married girl returns to her parents' home on the third day after marriage (including the wedding day) (she does not stay overnight, but returns on the same day), and returns with her husband, bringing gifts. When living at home (living in the woman's parents' home, usually with the children but not the husband, the husband can be sent to the woman's parents' home), several important days should be avoided: New Year's Day (the 30th or 29th day of the twelfth lunar month), the 1st day of the first lunar month, the 5th day of the first lunar month, the 15th day of the first lunar month, the 2nd day of the second lunar month, the 3rd day of the third lunar month, the 5th day of the fifth lunar month, the 15th day of the eighth lunar month, etc.
Of course, with the development of the times, many friends will celebrate the Dragon Boat Festival at their parents' home. If the parents-in-law do not care too much about the customs, it is okay to go back to their parents' home to celebrate the Dragon Boat Festival.

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