In today's society, going back to one's parents' home is actually a relatively free thing. You can go back anytime you want. However, there is still a saying that you cannot go back during some specific festivals. So why can't you go back during the Dragon Boat Festival? From the perspective of the 24 solar terms, the fifth month of the lunar calendar has entered the middle of summer, which is exactly the midsummer season. Therefore, the fifth month of the lunar calendar is known as the poisonous month. Come to Shuimo.com and join the editor to learn more about May.The saying that you can't go back to your parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival1. The saying that you can't go back to your parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival mainly comes from Shandong area, because this place is deeply influenced by Confucius. In ancient times, men were respected and women generally followed their husbands, so the festival could only be celebrated at the husband's home.2 Secondly, there are some local dialects that say that if a married daughter eats the Dragon Boat Festival rice dumplings from her mother's home, the whole family will die. This is just a scary rumor and has no actual scientific basis, so don't worry. 3. Therefore, the Dragon Boat Festival itself is a day for family reunion, no matter whether you celebrate it at the husband’s house or the wife’s house, as long as the whole family is happy, the reunion is a good festival. People nowadays have very open ideas and do not pay so much attention to it, so it can just be a matter of reaching a consensus on whose house to go to. What are the four major festivals for sending off one’s parents?1. The Spring Festival is the beginning of a new year of reunion, because in the past women would stay in the man’s home after marriage, and the number of times they could go home throughout the year was limited, so most of them would go home together to spend the Spring Festival with their parents. But nowadays, most young people live on their own after getting married, so during the Spring Festival they also travel back and forth, either to their parents’ home or to their husband’s home.2. Mid-Autumn Festival is a day for family reunion in China. It is also the day for married women to go home and visit their parents. Therefore, during the Mid-Autumn Festival, the son-in-law will bring gifts and accompany the woman back to her parents' home to visit and accompany her parents. 3. The Dragon Boat Festival is a festival where people send rice dumplings back to their parents’ home. It is also known as the Climbing Festival and a good time to travel. This festival is also known as the Senior Citizens’ Day. Daughters bring their significant others and some gifts to express their filial piety and to spend more time with their parents. 3. In some places, people will go back to their parents' home during the Qingming Festival. The Qingming Festival is a festival for ancestor worship and spring outings. Women go back to their parents' home to worship their deceased elders and also to go home to spend more time with their parents. |
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