Why not get engaged in the twelfth lunar month? Can’t we get engaged in the twelfth lunar month?
When the end of the year comes, people flock to give gifts. I believe everyone has experienced this. However, there has always been a saying that people don’t get engaged in the twelfth month. Do you know why? Let’s find out together. Want to know more about the auspicious and inauspicious days in the twelfth month of the lunar calendar in 2018? Pay attention to Shuimoxiansheng.com’s special topic on the twelfth month of the lunar calendar!Why not get engaged in the twelfth lunar month?There is a saying among the people that "Don't get married in the first month of the year, and don't get engaged in the twelfth month", which means that the first month of the year is not suitable for marriage, and the twelfth month is not suitable for engagement. It is said that marrying a daughter-in-law in the first month of the lunar calendar will bring trouble to the parents-in-law, while getting engaged in the twelfth month will bring misfortune to the husband's family. Therefore, in ancient times, few people would get married in the first month of the lunar calendar or get engaged in the twelfth month.What's the saying about choosing a date for engagement?No matter when you get married, you must choose a good day. Moreover, a few days before choosing a good day, the man's family must ask a matchmaker to go to the woman's family to inquire about the girl's "small life". That is, the menstrual period falls in the first or second half of the month in order to choose an auspicious day. It is said that if the bride's menstruation happens to come during the wedding, there is a saying that "a red horse going to bed will lead to the ruin of the family and the death of people", so people take it very seriously. If the groom is young, before he enters the bridal chamber, his parents must warn him not to exceed the festival, for fear that the bride will get pregnant on the wedding night. The child born will be called "Maimenzi", which is very unlucky. Therefore, "choosing a date" is very important.How was the engagement date chosen?Engagement is the date when two parties enter into a marriage contract. From the perspective of Feng Shui, no matter when the engagement is held, an auspicious day must be chosen. Generally, the method is to see if the lunar calendar day is suitable for engagement, and then refer to the birth dates of the man and woman to calculate the most auspicious engagement date. |
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