Can’t I meet my family on the beginning of spring? Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home on the beginning of spring?
As the first of the 24 solar terms, the Beginning of Spring has certain explanations and rules. So, let’s take a look at it, is it not possible to meet with one’s family members on the Beginning of Spring? Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home on the beginning of spring? The first month of the lunar calendar not only ushers in the Lunar New Year, but is also the month when spring begins. New Year, New Atmosphere. Come to Mr. Shui Mo's website to learn more about the first month of 2022!Can’t I meet my family on the beginning of spring?There is no saying that you cannot meet your mother's family on the day of the Beginning of Spring, but there is a custom that you cannot go back to your mother's home on the day of the Beginning of Spring.However, this custom is due to the fact that in the old days, the beginning of spring was the first day of the busy farming season, and a married daughter is like spilled water. If she returns to her parents' home at this time, not only will there be one less person doing the farming for her husband's family, but returning to her parents' home will also cause trouble for her parents. That’s why there is a saying that you can’t go back to your mother’s home. With the development of the times, this view has gradually been abandoned. Why can’t I go back to my parents’ home on the beginning of spring?There are actually three main reasons why you cannot go back to your parents' home during the Beginning of Spring.1. Going to your mother's house in early spring will make your brother-in-law poor. 2. "Look at the lights in your mother's house, and destroy the roots of her house." It is taboo to go back to your mother's house on the beginning of spring, because "Spring" is bigger than "New Year", otherwise your mother's family will become poor. 3. Going back to your parents’ home on the beginning of spring will make them poor When can’t I go back to my parents’ home?1. On the first day of the first lunar month, the elders believe that if a married girl spends the New Year at her parents' home, it will be bad for her parents' home in the new year.2. The 15th day of the first lunar month "A girl sees the lanterns at her parents' house, and her parents are very poor", "If you don't avoid the lanterns on the 15th day of the first lunar month, your father-in-law will die first" 3. Qingming Festival Qingming Festival is a day to worship ancestors, because the ancients believed that only sons could carry on the family line, while daughters belonged to other families. If they went to their parents' home on Qingming Festival, people would gossip about them. 4. Mid-Autumn Festival After a girl gets married, she is considered a member of her husband's family. The Mid-Autumn Festival is a day for family reunion. It is said that a married girl is like spilled water, so after she gets married, she is considered a member of her husband's family, so she cannot go back to her parents' home on this day. 5. Winter Solstice There is an old saying in the countryside: "If you don't survive the winter solstice, your father-in-law will die." Therefore, married daughters are not allowed to return to their parents’ home on this day. |
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